When I first joined the group, I was heartened to discover many like-minded women (and men) who wanted to create political community in a swing state. I had felt so alone in this crazy state. I needed to feel part of something bigger, even if it was virtual. Okay, maybe especially because it was virtual. I am quite happy to stay at home.
I became a moderator for the group's discussion page in late December, and I was overwhelmed. Uh, I had a LOT to learn. Some of us didn't spring full grown from the head of Zeus.
I had not done political work before, and I had been retired for 3 years. I was "rusty." I was afraid of conflict and confrontation. I was afraid I would be asked to do things I was not comfortable with. I doubted myself. Most of all, I was reluctant to give up a portion of my retirement time.
Because I am a notorious hot-head, I actually quit once, but went back a few weeks later. I have learned a lot about myself while growing into this role. I am thankful for this opportunity to learn and change. I was afraid those days were over.
If you are content living a quiet life in retirement, I am happy for you (and a bit jealous). Nothing wrong with that! But if you are floundering and/or depressed you might consider seeking a volunteer gig that interests you. Volunteering can give purpose to your life if you are feeling the lack.
It can be as simple as making one phone call a day, or doing spreadsheet work from home for an organization you believe in. Or you could volunteer to go to an animal shelter one afternoon a week to play with the cats and dogs. Whatever floats your boat. The possibilities are endless.
Honey, you have fought for what you believe in often in life. I have faith that you will make a difference wherever you choose to be. Have fun and come home energized.
ReplyDeleteThanks, Chilly.
DeleteYes, they are endless. I'm getting there.
ReplyDeleteYour health comes first. Slow process, I know. However, I have faith in your ability to heal yourself. You are a wonder worker.
DeleteYou are truly inspiring! I keep thinking I should volunteer and do something to at least try to effect even a small change. I haven't done a thing, but wallow in my despair over our present times. I sincerely thank you for this much-needed pep talk!
ReplyDeleteI'm no different than all the other women on secret facebook groups all over the country, posting our little hearts out. Ha! Seriously, just writing a few letters a week and sending them to your senator or congress(wo)man will make you feel like a million bucks.
DeleteWhat Robin said! I too need to get off my keester and do something instead of endlessly thinking about it. Good for you to stop the procrastination and jump in there!
ReplyDeleteStart small and work yourself up. It will make you proud of yourself, and you know we need that as we age. The best is always ahead of us.
DeleteTo give of one's self is a great gift.
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DeleteVolunteering is so empowering. I'm glad to hear you're enjoying it in retirement. I cannot wait to hear how the NOW Conference goes. Please blog about it! Maybe it will even deserve a series.
ReplyDeleteI will likely post about it on The Ondine Society collective blog (http://ondinesociety.blogspot.com/). But I will also do some variation here.
DeleteI retired. I missed people. I got depressed. I needed purpose. After 10 months, I made the big phone call. They called me in for an interview. What day(s) could I volunteer? Five years later I know that this is what I was meant to do. Life is better.
ReplyDeleteI am so glad that you are representing so many of us women at NOW. We need you more than ever. We are being attacked by a crazy man.
So glad to hear you found meaningful volunteer work! It is hard to make that initial phone call.
DeleteSo good to read. Please write about it all and I am in awe, anyway.
ReplyDeleteI will write about it. It was really interesting and I'm so glad I went.
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